About Me

Hi! I'm Alyssa.

Loving is really my middle name, and I'm so grateful it somehow became my life's work. ♡

8+ years · 50+ clients · Certified in The Compassion Method · Trained at Bethel School of Ministry

Alyssa Loving at her desk

My story

I was born and raised in the Philippines and now my husband and I live in sunny Santa Barbara, California. I was raised knowing about God and ‘knowing’ I was loved by God but struggled for years with never truly feeling loved or feeling good enough. I tried many inner healing methods but nothing helped me have that felt experience of love.

Then I found an incredible mentor who taught me how to not just love myself but also how to have compassion on myself, and how to really BE WITH me. As I got to know myself in a way I never had, I began to encounter God and God's love in a way I never had. My life started flowing with joy and ease.

Love, being with myself, and letting God be with me in all the beautiful and messy parts of me, completely transformed me.

What happened after that was an overflow — women began to come to me and ask for my advice, ask for a session with me, and a business of giving people an overflow of what had transformed me naturally blossomed.

I am now certified in The Compassion Method and I use that framework as a large part of what I do with my clients.

I see this work with you as sacred, and it would be an absolute honor for me to serve you and guide you on your journey of letting more love into your world and coming home to yourself.

Credentials

  • Personally mentored by Graham and Theresa Cooke of Brilliant Perspectives and by Laura Duncan, creator of The Compassion Method
  • Certified in The Compassion Method
  • Degree in Human Development and business, Lee University
  • Bethel School of Ministry (BSSM), with an emphasis in Sozo and inner healing
  • 8+ years and 50+ clients, learning how to “be with” a person and lead her to be with herself
Alyssa Loving on the California coast

“Fear only has room to live in places you don't believe you are loved.”

— Alyssa Loving

Who I am at my core

I restore love to people's inner worlds.

  • I love championing women toward their dreams.
  • I see beauty everywhere: in people, a good quote, fabric, travel, and nature.
  • I'm deeply empathetic. Sometimes I cry with my clients because I feel their pain with them.
  • I'm endlessly curious. I read constantly and hand wisdom back in a way that helps you see your own life from a new angle.
  • I believe God is happy, in a good mood, and loves and LIKES you more than you can comprehend. I love helping women hear His voice, with no shame, no religious boxes, and no need to make it complicated.

Who are you at YOUR core?

I look forward to helping you uncover her. I believe the full expression of YOU is what the world needs most. Through our sessions, your heart opens in a new way to love and acceptance.

Alyssa and her husband on the beach at sunset

Does something in you feel pulled, called or led to this?

You can trust that inner knowing. Book a free connection call and let's see what your next right step looks like.

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My mission is to help women love who they truly are and live freely.

I'm so glad you're here. — Alyssa